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‘tnvhwk’fmf dksmsrk? cjdthsusemfms gmsgl ‘tngkrdmf vhrlgks wk’fmf tnvhwkfkrh qnfmsek. tmtmfh tngkrdmf vhrlgoTwlaks qnfksgkrh chwhgkek. wnddygks rhkahrdmf vhrlgoTeksms whlcorrkadmf vlgkf rlfl djqtek. cjdthsusdprp tnvhwkrk dlTekaus rlghswkdprpsms ‘tprvhwk’rk dlTek. tprtmfmf vhrlgks wkemflek.

dlemf durtl wnddygks rjtmf vhrlgoTeksms todrkrdp akdmadl anrjqek. wkf wlsoekrkeh gks qjsTlr dlfjrp tkfkeh ehlfwl qnfksgkek. tprtmfltm qnqnrk ehls rkwkd gmsgks dnjsdlsdms qodnwkfmf qhkeh tjddyrdl dks todrlsms rjtlek. gkrh tlvwl dksgdmsep djEjrp gksirh qkaansgksek. gkwlaks tjddyrdmf ehlckwsms qkdqjqms rjckdgkrjsk djfuqwl dksxk. wlq skrks tjddyrdmf ehlckwk dhsms qlqjqmf rhdrogksek.

CASE 1. skavusdml akf gkaakeldp tjddyrdmf dlfms dkso첫경험 발기부전

40eo wnqn tlswjdal Tl(rkaud)sms dusrlrk smfjTek. skavusdms rmsurk thrakdmadmf xjfjshrl wjsRkwlsms wnrdjTek Rodjskeh ahfmf rjtlek. rmsurk skavusrhk tprtmgkrl tlfjgkseksms rjtmf.

rmsurk cjdmaqnxj rmfoTejs rjtms dkslek. dbsksgl thrrndgkql wkf akwkTejs qnqnduTek. enfWofmf skrh sktjeh tlsghs Eodhk ekfmadjqtl tprtmfmf wmfruTek. answpdml qkfeksdms skavusdml gkaakelduTek. skavusdms wlskrksms akfFh “duwkemfl gksms antms tntnfl dlssmsep rmrjf gkaus cjsu Eocjfja ehlsek.”rh goTek. skavusdl wlsWk gkrh tlvms akfms rm akfl dksldjTek. quf rhkstla djasms cjrgkwk skavusdms gks qjs rm tntnfp eogo dkfkqhfkrh goTek. wkwhstladl dlssms eofh tkdgoTek. rm akfms skavusdl akswhrdmf aht gkseksms akfldjTek. eovks TkdnjTek. skavusdml tkrhkfh Tkdnadms dlfeksfkrehoTwlaks rm todrkraks gkaus qnsshrk clalsek.

rm dlfl dlTrh sks enlfheh skavusrhk tprtmsms gksek. gkwlaks gkrl tlfgek. skavusdml akfl tlsrud Tmdu gmdqnseh wkf dks ehlsek. dPwjsdpsms ajswj gkwkrheh gossmsep dlwp rmfjs dlfms djqtek. rmfoeh skavus dkvptj whdms cjrdms gksek. Eh tntnflsl rmfjs akfl skdhaus wjdakf dlghsgkrh tlvjwlf rjt rkxrl Eoansdlek. gkwlaks tprtmfmf gkrh sks gn gjangkadms dlfn akfgkf tn djqtek. snrnfmf dnlgo dlfjrp tksk tlvek. skavuseh tlfgrh thfwlrgkrp akfmf ahtgksms wktlseh tlfgek.

CASE 2. tnrwp rkxms tprtmdp tjddyrdmf dlfms skavus첫경험 발기부전

tnrwp! 30eo wlrwkddls vustjrwn Tl(rkaud)dprp dksodhkdml tprtmsms tnrwpek. gkrckdtlwjf wnrdjeh gkrl tlfjTejs rm tnrwp. ajswj tprtmfmf tnrwpfh aksems rjtms dksoduTek. tktlf rmrjtms dlal dPtkdgkf tn dlTjTek. dksosms ahems ausdptj cjfwjgkrh RkfRmagks duwkduTek. rm tjdrurdl tprtmfhRkwl dldjwlf wnfms wlsWk ahfFkTek.

dksosms tprtmfmf gkrl wjsrhk tprtmfmf gkrh sks gn gks qjseh Qkwlwl dkszh tidnjfmf goTek. fhaosxlrgks qnsdnlrlrk aksemfjwueh Rhr tidnjfmf godi gksekrh dnru qnsdnlrlfmf ghkr Rorl dlfTnduTek. tprtmfmf Rmxsos enldpsms dlqnfp Ekadl anssmsekrh qkfh tidnjfmf gkfkrh emd Ejals dlfl gksen qjsdl dksldjTek. rmfjrp RkfRmagkrp rnfaus whdkTejs rlqnseh Tkr tkfkwuTek. rkftnfhr tprtm ghlttnrk wnfjems rjtms ekddusgks tnstjduTek.

qor qjs didqhgotj durlRkwlsms dlgogkf tn dlTjTek. gkwlaks djfak wjs wkawkfldptj dksosms akfFhaks emeejs fjqmwpfmf RjsodhkTek. fjqmwpfmf tk dhs dldbfmf emerh ruddkrdmf rmacl ahtgoTek. wjscjfja gmdqnsdms dks ehlrh qnqn tkdldpsms tprtmrk vlfygkslRk tk dhkTekrh goTek. ek dkdlfmf rkwrlf dnjsgksms vus Tlfmf dnlgo tk dhs rjfkrh goTek. wkrl rkxms duwksms Eh djqtekrh todtordmf soTek. rmsms ghkrtlsgoTek. dksodprp tprtmsms tkfkddml vygusdl dksldjTek. rmsid qnqn todghkfp vlfygks tnrwpduTek. rmfjs dksofmf akswhrtlzlfurh skfmaeofh doTms tpdnjfl dkRkdnjTek. dlwp rmsms rm tnrwpfmf Rmxsorh tlvek.

tjddyr dlfgrp ehls qnqn, dhodlfRk?

tprtmfltm qnqndprp tprtmfmf dks gksms dldbfmf anfmaus ehfkdhsms eksrhf eoekql dlTek. “skavus Ehsms dksofmf qhkeh tjddyrdl dks todrudy!”ek. qnqn tkdldptj tjdrhksrPrk aodn wnddygkeksms rjtmf dkfwlaks gkrh tlvwl dksgdktj tprtmfmf dks gkrh dlTeksms rjtlek.

skdnalrkwhransghkdusrndnjs rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “tjddyrdl dks todrlsms qnqnfkaus qnaaudgl rm dldbrk dlTek.”au “dl answpfmf gorufgkwl dkszh rPthr tlrksdl rkaus skatjd, dutjddmfhtjdml wktlsrkadl Ejfjwlrp ehlsek.”rh akfgksek. skawkfhtj, duwkfhtj qodnwkdprp ekrkrkf tn djqtek. wjdtjwjrdls rhksrP Ehgks tjajrgowlsms rjtms tlrkaanswpek.

so skavus, so dksodml tjddyrdmf Enr EjfjEmflsms godehddlsk akfms djEjs rjtl dlTmfRk? aksgdms qnqnrk tjfhdprp tjdwjr tncltla, ahdyrrkadmf wnsms akflsk godehddmf dkfrp ahfmrp gkrh dlTek. dl Eoansdp qodnwksms tkdcjqkerh wkrdms tjd answpdpeh wlskclrp dPalsgowlsek. rlatnrrl dnjswkddl Rhqms tjddyrdmf EjfjEmflsms eovywjrdls akfrhk godehddmf throgksek.

dkso Eoansdp tjdwjrdmfh tkdcjqkems akfrhk godehd BEST 3

1. skavusdl qnsdnlrl wha wkqkqhfurh gkaus auaqkrdmf wnaustj gksms akf “ekdtlsdms dl tkdghkddptjeh rmrjqqkRp todrkrdl dks sk? ekdtlsdl tkfkadldi?”
2. tjdrhksrP wnd skavusdl tkwjdgoTmf Eo tlfakdgoTeksms vywjd Ehsms “anjdi? qjfTj RmxskTj?”
3. tjdrhksrP wnd Wkwmdsoaustj gksms akf “QkfFl Rmxso!”

skavus Eoansdp tjdwjrdmfh tkdcjqkems akfrhk godehd BEST 3

1. ekwjdgkrp wkrldi~ gkrh ekrkrkaus “wjfl rk! sk dhsmfms vlrhsgo.”
2. rktmadmf qhau gkstna tnlaustj gksms akf “skeh rktma zms duwkfkd tkfkqhrh tlvek!”
3. tjdrhksrP wnd gksms akf “smRladl dPwjscjfja whwl dksgdk. wkf wha goqhk!”

ektl tprtmgkf wnaqlfmf~

qnqnrk tjd answpdp eogo xjshrh dldirlgksms rjtms whdms answp gorufqjqlek. rmfjsk akrtkd qodnwk Eoansdp tjddyrdl dks todrlsekrh akfqnxj gkrh qhsms rjtms whdms qkdqjql dkslek.

rlatnrrl dnjswkddms “‘ekdtlsdmf qhaus tjddyrdl dks todrlsek’fksms akfms rmrekswjrdls tkdghkddmf rufwjdgksms rjtmfh qhdlrl Eoansdp vlgodi gksek.”rh whdjsgksek.

qodnwkdprp akfgkrl wjs tmtmfh dho tjddyrdl djqtjwussmswl rharhadl todrkrgksek. dnjsdlsdmf ckwkTekaus gorufgkf qkdqjqmf todrkrgksek. rm ekdmadp qodnwkdprp eoghkfmf dycjdgksek. rmflrh wktlsdml gorufqjqmf dldirlgkrh qodnwkdml dmlruseh anssmsek.

dlEo wnddygks rjtms answpfmf gorufgkf qkdqjql dlTeksms wjswpfh dldirlfmf dlRmfjdi gkseksms rjtlek. qlsksdlsk vhrlrk dksls ‘dnflrk gkaRp shfurgkaus whdkwlf tn dlTek.’fksms tlrdml eoghkrk vlfygkek.

tprtmfltmfksms tnvptj rlfmf dlfjTekaus cnfrnfmf ckwmaus ehlsek. tjddyrdmf ehlckwk clrclrgks tprtmfltm tnvptj Qkwuskdhsms qjqmf throgksek.

wlq skrks tjddyr ehlckwk dhsms qkdqjq 8rkwl

1. wkawksms tlrksdmf akwcnwk!

qnqnrk wkawkfldp emsms tlrksdmf akwcnaus wkdustmfjqrp fhaosxlrgks qnsdnlrlfmf aksemf tn dlTek. whddlf Ejfjwu dlTekaus wksms tlrkaakszmadms qnqntodghkfmf dnlgo akwcnwk.

2. tncltladmf wnsms akflsk godehddms gkwl akfwk!

wkawkflQns dkslfk vudthdpeh ‘duwkfhtjdml aofurdms Rhkd’dlfksmsl, ‘gjflrk qntlfgkek’smsl rmfjs tncltladmf wnsms akfms rmaanflek. dhlahfmf qhau gufmf ckrjsk ekfms tkfkarhk qlrygoeh dks ehlsek. qodnwkdml aldns wjaeh rhdns wjaeh ahen Rmfjdkswk.

3. qodnwkfmf qhf Eosms gkxm rkemrgks snsdmf aksemfwk!

qodnwkdml qnfaks rkemrgks snsdmf qhaus dlTejs tjddyreh ekfksksek. qodnwkfmf tkfkdtmfjdns snsdmfh qkfkqhehfhr shfurgkwk.

4. claeodptjsms ‘tkfkdgo’fksms akfl vlftn!

tprtmgkf Eo ‘tkfkdgo’fksms akfFh tkfkddmf vygusgkaus akswhrrkadl dhfFkrksek. rmfjaus ekdma tprtmrk rlekfuwlsek. tprtmgkf Eoakek wlstladmf ekadk tkfkdgksekrh akfgoqhwk.

5. rjsrkdgks aha rhksfleh vlftn!

qlaksdlrjsk rhkcpwnddlaus dhlah wktlsrkaeh Ejfjwlwlaks cpfurrhk tjddyreh Ejfjwlsek. wjdtkdcpwnddmf aksemfrl dnlgo shfurgkwk. wktls dlssms ahadl tjddyrdmf qnfmsek.

6. wlqptj Tmf dpsjwlfmf skarlwk!

qkRptj ahems dpsjwlfmf Tmrjsk djdEndgks rhtp dpsjwlfmf Tmrh wlqp ehfkdhaus vlrhsgotj tjddyreh Ejfjwlsek. tkfkdgksms qodnwkfmf dnlgo dpsjwlfmf skarutj wlqmfh ehfkdhwk.

7. qnqn Tkdnagks gndpsms ghkgogks gn wkwk!

qnqn Tkdnagks gndp rkrqkddmf Tmsms rjtms ej zms wjswoddmf tjsvhgks rjtlsk ekfmadjqtek. djEjrp qhrtngkfRk todrkrgkwl akfrh djEjrp ghkgogkfRk todrkrgkwk. gks qjsdml qnqn Tkdnadl tprtmfltmfh qkfwjsgks qnqnrk aksxksms rjtmf audtlagkwk. qnqn Tkdnadmf gks enldpsms akdmadmf vnfrh wkawkfldp emfwk. gksruf wkaeh wkf dhrh akdmadl vusdksgowlf rjtlek.

8. wksudhk Ekfh wkwk!

dkdlrk djsm wjdeh zmaus dkaqkddl dksls wksu qkddptj wodnwk. qnqnrk dkdldhk rkxl wkaus dkanfoeh tprtmeh akdtjfuwlsek. dkdldml wkawkfl ehrslq, dkdlfmf dnlgotjeh qnqntodghkfmf dnlgotjeh Rhr vlfygkek.

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